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nǐshuōde wǒ dōu zhīdào ，zǒngzhī yī shuǎishǒu jiāoqián liǎoshì bei ！dànshì nǐ liángxīn shang guòdeqù ma ？yī wèn ni jiā lǎorén ne ，nǐ shuō gē jìnglǎoyuàn lǐ le ，biérén hái bù rènwéi nǐ shì bùxiàozǐ ！wǒmen zuì qǐmǎ yào jìn xiàodào ，jǐnliàng ràng mā wǎnnián hǎohāo xiǎng xiang qīngfú ，yǒu kùnnan kěyǐ kèfú ma ！

I know what you're saying-- basically, pay some money and wash your hands of it! But would your conscience let you do that? As soon as someone asks about your parents, and you tell them you've stuck them in a nursing home, won't other people think you're a bad son! The least we can do is try our best to be good children, and do our best to allow our mom to enjoy a care-free life in her later years. Whatever difficulties we have, we can overcome them!

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社交对前者来说自然轻松得多，对后者来说除了要多多积累些社交经验还要克服心理障碍。

shèjiāo duì qiánzhě láishuō zìrán qīngsōng de duō ，duì hǒuzhě láishuō chúle yào duōduō jīlěi xiē shèjiāo jīngyàn hái yào kèfú xīnlǐ zhàngài 。

Socializing comes with much more ease for the former, but for the latter, as well as accumulating a lot of social experience, they have to get over certain psychological obstacles.

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如果为了挑战自我克服交流障碍，你可以试试看这样的社交套路。破冰，找话题；深入，找共同点；收场，并为下次对话埋好伏笔。

rúguǒ wèile tiǎozhàn zìwǒ kèfú jiāoliú zhàngài ，nǐ kěyǐ shìshikàn zhèyàng de shèjiāo tàolù 。pòbīng ，zhǎo huàtí ；shēnrù ，zhǎo gòngtóngdiǎn ；shōuchǎng ，bìng wèi xiàcì duìhuà mái hǎo fúbǐ 。

To challenge yourself to overcome social impediments, you can try this kind of socializing routine. Break the ice and find a topic of conversation; go deeper and find a common point; bring it to a close and plant the seed for the next time.

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由于负责任及细心的个性，不仅让我顺利克服求学时遇到的困难，也展现在工作成效上。过去的工作经验包括留英时期的助教工作，我也曾在一家英文报社从事记者工作。

yóuyú fùzérèn jí xìxīn de gèxìng ，bùjǐn ràng wǒ shùnlì kèfú qiúxué shí yùdào de kùnnan ，yě zhǎnxiàn zài gōngzuò chéngxiào shàng 。guòqù de gōngzuò jīngyàn bāokuò liúyīng shíqī de zhùjiāo gōngzuò ，wǒ yě céng zài yī jiā Yīngwén bàoshè cóngshì jìzhě gōngzuò 。

My responsible and meticulous nature allowed me to overcome difficulties I encountered in my studies, as well as making me more effective in my work. I have previous work experience including as a TA while I was studying abroad in the UK and I also worked as a journalist for an English-language paper.

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是啊，这些好像都是天生的。就算年龄再大，也没办法克服。比如说，好多人有飞行恐惧症。情况严重的甚至不能坐飞机。这多不方便呀。

shì ā ，zhèxiē hǎoxiàng dōu shì tiānshēng de 。jiù suàn niánlíng zài dà ，yě méi bànfǎ kèfú 。bǐrú shuō ，hǎo duō rén yǒu fēixíng kǒngjùzhèng 。qíngkuàng yánzhòng de shènzhì bùnéng zuò fēijī 。zhè duō bù fāngbiàn yā 。

Yes, it seems that these kinds of things are natural. Even as we get older, there’s no way to overcome them. For example, a lot of people have a fear of flying. It’s so serious that they can’t even travel by plane. It’s very inconvenient.

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说到社会变化，人口流动也是中国式离婚的一大特点。城市间的流动，农村到城市的流动都考验着个人感情。他们不仅要面对地域上的分隔，而且还要克服思想上的差别。

shuōdào shèhuì biànhuà ，rénkǒuliúdòng yě shì zhōngguóshì líhūn de yī dà tèdiǎn 。chéngshìjiān de liúdòng ，nóngcūn dào chéngshì de liúdòng dōu kǎoyàn zhe gèrén gǎnqíng 。tāmen bù jǐn yào miànduì dìyù shàng de fēngé ，érqiě háiyào kèfú sīxiǎng shàng de chābié 。

Speaking of social changes, population movement is another big characteristic of Chinese-style divorce. Movement within cities, and migration from villages to cities, are all putting human emotions to the test. Not only do they have to deal with spatial separation, but also with differences in thinking.

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1. 我有能力克服各种困难：________

yī . wǒ yǒu nénglì kèfú gèzhǒng kùnnan ：________

1. I can overcome all kinds of difficulties:_____

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