要知道孩子跟你聊天的前提是,你得绕开数不清的雷区:不要问穿没穿秋裤!不要在孩子脸色已经不好的情况下还没眼色地打听考试成绩!不要总追着1米8的大儿子问你吃饱了没……最重要的是聊啥都行,千万别讲道理!
Know that the prerequisite of your child chatting with you is that you have to avoid the mine fields: Don’t ask about underwear! Don’t ask for grades haphazardly when your child looks upset! Don’t be chasing down your 6 foot tall son asking if he is full! ......the most important thing is, you can talk about anything but life philosophies!