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那这个背景的话，你可以多方面打听。他以前是哪里毕业的，他老婆是谁，他什么，就是越仔细越好。这就是这种东西其实就是牵涉到你怎么用一种关系营销。当然就是说这个是题外话咯。但是的话如果说你能够跟他建立起一种个人的联系，哪怕不是关系，就不是说你跟他个人有什么关联，但是的话如果能够让他觉得，就是说你跟他之间是一种很亲近的一种关系的话，那么有时候恐怕很容易就能够打破僵局。

nà zhè ge bèijǐng dehuà ，nǐ kěyǐ duō fāngmiàn dǎting 。tā yǐqián shì nǎli bìyè de ，tā lǎopó shì shéi ，tā shénme ，jiùshì yuè zǐxì yuè hǎo 。zhè jiùshì zhèzhǒng dōngxi qíshí jiùshì qiānshèdào nǐ zěnme yòng yīzhǒng guānxi yíngxiāo 。dāngrán jiùshìshuō zhè ge shì tíwàihuà lo 。dànshì dehuà rúguǒ shuō nǐ nénggòu gēn tā jiànlìqǐ yīzhǒng gèrén de liánxì ，nǎpà bùshì guānxi ，jiù bùshì shuō nǐ gēn tā gèrén yǒu shénme guānlián ，dànshì dehuà rúguǒ nénggòu ràng tā juéde ，jiùshìshuō nǐ gēn tā zhījiān shì yīzhǒng hěn qīnjìn de yīzhǒng guānxi dehuà ，nàme yǒushíhou kǒngpà hěn róngyì jiù nénggòu dǎpò jiāngjú 。

Now regarding background, there's a lot of things you can ask about. Where did he graduate from? Who is his wife? Whatever, the more detailed the better. In fact, it's in these details where you can bring in business and sales. Of course, these things are off of the topic; however, if you can establish a personal relationship with him, even if it's not a business relationship, or if you don't have a personal connection, if you can make him think that you were close or that there is some relationship between you, then sometimes it's easy to break the ice.

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那些都是大公司，牛得很。哪怕不给钱，大家也是挤破了头进去实习，有的还托关系。对实习生来说嘛，主要是赚个实习经验，有利于以后找工作。

nàxiē dōu shì dà gōngsī ，niú de hěn 。nǎpà bù gěi qián ，dàjiā yě shì jǐpòletóu jìnqù shíxí ，yǒude hái tuōguānxi 。duì shíxíshēng láishuō ma ，zhǔyào shì zhuàn ge shíxí jīngyàn ，yǒulìyú yǐhòu zhǎo gōngzuò 。

They're all big companies and really impressive. Why worry about paying money when everyone's breaking their necks trying to intern for you? Others get in because of connections. As an intern, the main thing is gaining internship experience that will be beneficial to finding work later.

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你别太难过了。说不定他的病情没你想的那么严重。现在医学这么发达，只要治疗得当，很多早期中期的癌症是可以治愈的。听说国内有一种中西医结合治疗的方法很管用。哪怕到了晚期，只要患者生存意志坚定，也能战胜病魔。

nǐ bié tài nánguò le 。shuōbudìng tā de bìngqíng méi nǐ xiǎng de nàme yánzhòng 。xiànzài yīxué zhème fādá ，zhǐyào zhìliáo dédàng ，hěn duō zǎoqī zhōngqī de áizhèng shì kěyǐ zhìyù de 。tīngshuō guónèi yǒu yī zhǒng zhōngxīyī jiéhé zhìliáo de fāngfǎ hěn guǎnyòng 。nǎpà dào le wǎnqī ，zhǐyào huànzhě shēngcún yìzhì jiāndìng ，yě néng zhànshèng bìngmó 。

Don't feel so bad. You never know, maybe it's not that serious. Medical science is so advanced these days, if it can be treated properly, a lot of early-stage and mid-stage cancer can be cured. I heard there's a really effective treatment in China that combines traditional Chinese and Western medicine. Even if it gets to the later stages, as long as the patient has a strong will to survive, they can still beat such a serious disease.

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哪怕可能性很小，我也要试一试。

nǎpà kěnéngxìng hěn xiǎo ，wǒ yě yào shì yi shì 。

Even if there isn't much of a possibility, I still want to give it a shot.

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东东，你就听你爸一回，去找份工作吧。哪怕没有工资也行啊，就当作是社会锻炼。

Dōngdong ，nǐ jiù tīng nǐ bà yī huí ，qù zhǎo fèn gōngzuò ba 。nǎpà méiyǒu gōngzī yě xíng a ，jiù dàngzuò shì shèhuì duànliàn 。

Dongdong, listen to your father for once and go look for a job. Even if you don't earn any money, just think of it as getting some real-world experience.

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同样的座位，同样的衣着，同样清秀的背影，同样的红头绳和麻花辫。有几次，我有意侧过身想看一下她的脸。但她好像察觉到什么一样，把头转向另一边。难道是她发现了我的举动？我心里暗暗地在想:下次坐车一定要坐到前面，哪怕没座位也要站在车前。唉！对了，可以在车站等她啊。而且一定要找机会和她搭讪，问个电话号码什么的。

tóngyàng de zuòwèi ，tóngyàng de yīzhuó ，tóngyàng qīngxiù de bèiyǐng ，tóngyàng de hóngtóushéng hé máhuābiàn 。yǒu jǐcì ，wǒ yǒuyì cèguò shēn xiǎng kàn yīxià tā de liǎn 。dàn tā hǎoxiàng chájué dào shénme yīyàng ，bǎ tóu zhuǎnxiàng lìng yībiān 。nándào shì tā fāxiàn le wǒ de jǔdòng ？wǒ xīnli ànàn de zài xiǎng :xiàcì zuòchē yīdìng yào zuò dào qiánmian ，nǎpà méi zuòwèi yě yào zhàn zài chē qián 。ài ！duìle ，kěyǐ zài chēzhàn děng tā a 。érqiě yīdìng yào zhǎo jīhuì hé tā dāshàn ，wèn ge diànhuà hàomǎ shénme de 。

The same seat and same clothes. Same delicate view of her back, same red hair-tie and braid. A few times, I tried to pass by her so I could take a look at her face, but she always seemed to know what was up and turn her head to the other side. Is it possible that she knew what I was trying to do? In my head I was secretly thinking: ‘Next time I take the bus, I’ll sit up front. Even if there's no seats, I'll just stand there. Oh, I got it! I can wait for her at the bus stop'. Then I'll definitely have an chance to strike up a conversation and ask for her numer or something.

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哪怕他一分钱也没有，我也要嫁给他。

nǎpà tā yī fēn qián yě méiyǒu ，wǒ yě yào jiàgěi tā 。

Even if he doesn't have any money at all, I still want to marry him.

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哪怕天气不好，我也要去。

nǎpà tiānqì bù hǎo ，wǒ yě yào qù 。

Even if the weathers bad, I'm still going to go.

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