User Comments - bababardwan

bababardwan

Posted on: Hamsters, Snakes, and Owls

October 9, 2012 at 11:09 AM

我有深刻的印象

应该有一个合适的成语形容这个情况，但不知道

加油

Posted on: Hamsters, Snakes, and Owls

October 6, 2012 at 2:14 AM

"I believe rats are actually cats, and a mouse is actually a house. lets talk about it over email as to avoid embarrassment"

lol [love your examples]...yeah, gotcha [I thought you were referring to hostilities but I just wanted to zoom in on the word "disagreement" to make sure you weren't also including friendly disagreements/ debates]. cool.

"Visualize whirled peas"

haha, good quote.

Posted on: Hamsters, Snakes, and Owls

October 5, 2012 at 10:49 PM

George,

"if anyone should find disagreement with anything I say or do, I would kindly request that they inbox me their malcontent rather than post it publically on this site. I do slip up and say or do something that is 'off', but I would prefer to not be embarrased publically"

don't worry mate. Firstly let me observe that you would have to be one of the most inoffensive persons I have struck. I think it's pretty plain you come from a good place and you are respectful, and I respect that. When folk can so clearly see that, I think they're very unlikely to take you the wrong way/take umbrage with what you say and where ambiguity exists will likely give you the benefit of the doubt. Secondly, not everyone will see the post you just made. But I would also like to make the point that folk should be able to disagree, to post their different viewpoints and that this can be a good and educational thing, without it meaning there is any disrespect involved or that the purpose is to embarrass the other person publicly. I think it's important to keep emotions out of it...it's not necessary. So anyhow, if I disagree with anything you say know that there will be no disrespect involved and there will be no need for embarrassment. My opinions are just as likely to be wrong and I think we all just need to be humble and have a sense of humour about these things, and see what we can learn together. I am not afraid of confrontation at all, but rather, like you would avoid it for I too would not like to feel I upset anyone，care about others feelings. At the same time, it would help if folk in general tried to be less 敏感

Anyhow, Cheers George. 加油朋友：）